The Science of Affection: Why Showing Love to Kids Matters
Research reveals how having warm, loving parents as a child helps you flourish as an adult
A recent study out of Harvard has found that people who had warm, affectionate parents in childhood live better lives. Most of us consider it common sense that a parent’s love goes a long way, affecting a child’s well-being and health in the moment and for years to come. But the size of that impact may be larger than we think.
The search for what determines our health and happiness in life has become a science unto itself. This particular study isolated one factor: whether people experienced their parents as affectionate. The association was clear and consistent; people who remember their parents as warm and loving are flourishing at much higher rates in adulthood. This was true even when the study controlled for socioeconomic and other factors.
What do they mean by flourishing?
Flourishing is a popular word for philosophers and theologians, but it refers to something doctors study under other terms. Simply put, it’s about the good life.
Tyler VanderWeele, one of the study authors and director of Harvard’s Human Flourishing Program, explains flourishing as “a state in which…
