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I’m mad for the reasons you are. Thankfully we are not alone.

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Shortly before my 31st birthday a couple of years ago, my boyfriend gave me an ultimatum: Start going to therapy (again) or say goodbye to the relationship. When my boyfriend told me something had to give, I knew — for my sake more than his, or even ours — that he was right.

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