The New Anxiety Therapy That’s All About Accepting Your Fears

A new kind of counseling is changing how people get help — and it’s working

Jamie Friedlander
Elemental

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WWhen Brenda Hurwood was in her thirties, she had an accident that left her with a partial disability: She worked in home care support with elderly patients, and she injured her shoulder and neck while helping a client get out of a chair.

The injury left her with decreased stamina and constant pain, Hurwood says, and she found it difficult to continue working. “It eroded away my self-confidence as a person,” she says.

Hurwood, 63, who lives in Nova Scotia, Canada, says she developed generalized anxiety disorder, which persisted for decades. She tried different forms of therapy and various medications, but nothing worked — until 15 years ago, when a therapist introduced her to acceptance and commitment therapy.

ACT (pronounced like “act”) is a relatively new form of therapy centered on accepting that pain and suffering are an inevitable part of life, and using that acceptance to manage negative thoughts and feelings. In addition to anxiety, it’s been used as a treatment for depression, chronic pain, anger, phobias, and a host of other issues.

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Jamie Friedlander
Elemental

Chicago-based freelance writer specializing in mental health. Words in The Cut, VICE, SUCCESS Magazine, the Chicago Tribune and more. www.jamiegfriedlander.com