Why Calmness Can Be Contagious

The powerful science behind co-regulation

Ashley Abramson
Elemental
Published in
5 min readJul 11, 2019

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Illustration: Jon Han

WWhen the three-year-old Abby Perry was babysitting erupted into a tantrum about a toy he wanted to play with, Perry’s first instinct was to discipline him and remind him to share. “Then I thought, what would the point be?” she says. “This little boy was shrieking and unsettled, in a house he’d never visited, being cared for by a family he…

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Ashley Abramson
Elemental

Writer-mom hybrid. Health & psychology stories in NYT, WaPo, Allure, Real Simple, & more.