Why You Should Swipe Right on an Optimist

Good relationships and optimistic partners are linked to longer, healthier lives

Robert Roy Britt
Elemental
Published in
5 min readFeb 14, 2020

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RRomantic relationships can up the odds of being happier, living longer, and, according to new research, even help prevent or delay the onset of dementia. That is, of course, if the relationship is good. And increasingly, science shows that one of the keys to a healthy relationship is to pick a happy and optimistic partner.

The latest research on the topic, published in the Journal of Personality, involved up to eight years of data on more than 4,000 heterosexual couples, revealing “a potential link between being married to an optimistic person and preventing the onset of cognitive decline.” The researchers figure an optimistic partner sets an example that could lead to healthier lifestyle choices that help keep the brain sharp — from quitting bad habits to improving diet or increasing exercise.

“There’s a sense where optimists lead by example, and their partners follow their lead,” says study co-author William Chopik, PhD, an assistant professor of psychology at Michigan State University. “We found that when you look at the risk factors for what predicts things like Alzheimer’s disease or dementia, a lot of them are things like living a healthy lifestyle. Maintaining a healthy weight and…

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Robert Roy Britt
Elemental

Editor of Wise & Well on Medium + the Writer's Guide at writersguide.substack.com. Author of Make Sleep Your Superpower: amazon.com/dp/B0BJBYFQCB